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🏳️‍🌈 Aromantic Community 💚

Explore stories, share connections, and discover resources on the aromantic spectrum.

What Does LGBTQIA+ Stand For?

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🙅🏻‍♀️ 🏹 Aromantic / Asexual / Agender ⬛️ 🍰

💚 Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.

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Aromantic Bingo
at least 2+ letters of LGBTQIA
still friends with an ex-partner
“you’re basically straight/gay/other”
fwb or grindr hookups
flip-flops on IDing as aro
made parents sad
loves being aro
used to believe everyone’s like this
autism
“i want a relationship” *gets into one* “this sucks actually”
used to identify as bi/pan
chill with romance
aro (free space)
repulsed by romance
marriage is for financial and legal benefits
shamed for enjoying sex
has or wants qpr
had to awkwardly reject friend
life goal: live with best friends
unreasonably sad when friends get into relationships
it’s easier to say asexual sometimes
don’t know when you’re being flirted with
chronically lonely
romance in fiction is boring
only aro person in the squad
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What is Aromanticism?

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In the initialism LGBTQIA+, the A stands for aromanticism, alongside asexuality and agender.

Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by little to no romantic feelings towards to others, and experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction. The opposite of aromanticism is alloromanticism, defined as a romantic orientation in which one experiences romantic love or romantic attraction to others Some aromantic individuals may experience romantic attraction but not feel compelled to act on it.

In society at large, aromantic people are often stigmatized and stereotyped as being afraid of intimacy, heartless, or deluded. Amatonormativity, a neologism coined by philosopher and professor Elizabeth Brake, defined as "the widespread assumption that everyone is better off in an exclusive, romantic, long-term coupled relationship, and that everyone is seeking such a relationship", can be particularly damaging to aromantics. Amatonormativity is said to be connected to devaluing familial, platonic, and queerplatonic friendships/relationships damaging to aromantics.

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Split Attraction Model

The Split Attraction Model (SAM) is a way of understanding that attraction can be divided into different types, such as romantic, sexual, aesthetic, sensual, and platonic attraction.

This model is especially helpful for people who identify as aromantic, asexual, or on other parts of the asexual or aromantic spectrum, as it allows them to better describe their unique experiences with attraction.

For example, someone might feel strong sexual attraction to others but experience no romantic attraction, or vice versa. By splitting these concepts, SAM provides more nuanced ways to express and understand human attraction.

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Split Attraction Model

Resources & Friendly Links

Here are some resources and friendly links to help you learn more about aromanticism and related topics.

Feel free to explore and share these resources with others who might benefit from them. Knowledge is a step toward understanding and acceptance!

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